As you begin considering your options for senior living, it is also a good time to review (or create, if you have not already done so) two essential legal documents that pertain to senior care and end of life care: your power of attorney and your advance directives (also called a living will). In this blog post, we will explain the difference between these documents and the importance of each.
Power of attorney is assigned by a “principal” (you) to an “attorney-in-fact,” also known as an “agent,” giving that person legal authority to make decisions should you become incapacitated, mentally or physically. The attorney-in-fact can be a spouse/partner, adult child, relative, or friend, but most important, it should be someone you trust to act in good faith at all times on your behalf. While there are general guidelines for the designation of an agent, specific laws around the creation of a power of attorney do vary from state to state, so always consult with an experienced attorney before you sign a power of attorney designation document.
When the power of attorney document is created, the principal decides the amount of power that will be granted to the attorney-in-fact (again, the agent). The agent can be given the power to handle only one particular issue (referred to as a specific power of attorney), or he or she can be given authorization to take care of nearly all of the principal’s personal and financial affairs (known as a general power of attorney). The most common specific power of attorney documents include:
The attorney-in-fact is required to keep accurate records of all transactions made on behalf of the principal, and he or she is also responsible for understanding which specific types of decisions he or she has the power to make (versus what they do not have the authority to decide).
It bears repeating that you should choose an agent who you trust implicitly to make decisions on your behalf. But regardless of the high confidence level of the chosen agent, you, the principal, should also be sure another trusted individual knows who their chosen attorney-in-fact is and where the power of attorney documents are located.
Advance directives are a written document that helps guide the healthcare choices made by doctors and caregivers if you should become terminally ill, seriously injured, in a coma, in the final stages of dementia, or near the end of your life.
States have different laws and forms required to create this legal document, and some may require a signature from a witness and/or a notary, but advance directives should always be in writing. You may seek advice from a lawyer if you prefer, but this is a document you can create yourself. The National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization website provides a free downloadable advance directives form and instructions specific to your state.
Within the living will document, you may be as general or as specific as you wish, though typically more specificity is helpful to both your physicians and to your family and care decision-makers. As a starting point, consider where you fall on a scale of 1 to 5 where 1 is, “Let me die peacefully without medical intervention,” and 5 is, “Never give up on me – try all available medical interventions.”
Programs such as The Conversation Project and Begin the Conversation have helpful tools to help seniors assess their values and discuss their wishes with family and loved ones. It is also useful to include in your advance directives document your preference on becoming an organ or tissue donor at the end of your life.
Once you finalize your advance directives documents, you should:
Older adults should review their power of attorney and advance directives documents (as well as their last will and testament!) periodically to be sure they still accurately reflect their wishes. A lawyer should assist if you need to make an update or amendment to your power of attorney. If you need to change or update anything on the advance directives, complete a whole new document and refer to your list of who has a copy so you may give them an updated version. By preparing these documents before you need them, you can save your loved ones (and yourself) a lot of potential heartache and stress.
As you’re planning for your future and considering your move to a CCRC like River Landing, we encourage you to prepare fully now and give your family the gift of a worry-free future with moments alongside you.
Talk with your family attorney about how you can be best prepared for a future you love.
The above article was written by Brad Breeding of myLifeSite and is legally licensed for use.